I learned to give myself plenty to time to get to where I was going. I bought Bob in late May with only a one week tryout. I didn't know much about his personality. I found that one good way to get to know your horse is to haul him places and that the more you haul together the better your relationship gets. I found Bob to be "sensitive" but was pleased to also find him to be "adaptable". Bob is the kind of horse that once he checks something out, doesn't question it any further.
I took this picture on Bob. This was my favorite trip of the summer. We'd gone to a local cattle sorting event solo, totally on our own for the first time. It was a liberating experience and one of the highlights of the summer. And oh those warm evenings....
But all things must come to an end.
Last week some friends invited me to join them one morning to practice sorting cows. I didn't even think twice before I agreed to not only go but to also pick up a Cowgirl Pal and her horse along the way. I told my Cowgirl Pal that I'd meet her at her barn early so we'd get to the practice with time to spare.
Home alone because it was hunting season, I caught the weather forecast as I was heading to bed. They talked of lows in the 20's, fog and icy road. Oh no! I tossed and turned all night, worried about driving my one ton dually and hauling horses on icy roads with unforgiving 8 foot drainage ditches to greet us should we slide.
The bird bath was frozen.
Poco was frozen (actually he wasn't but he looked that way).
I followed my routine of loading my tack ahead of time but couldn't get the trailer door opened because the trailer and truck were both covered in ice. I returned to the house to wrap my chilled hands around my very appealing morning cup of coffee. After I finished my coffee I went back out and finally got the door opened.
I drove on the ice as if I was driving on glass, telling myself to try to not hurry because I was running late. I told myself to keep it low and slow. My Cowgirl Pal (bless her heart) was waiting with her horse in hand. We were loaded and on our way within minutes. We got to the practice and hurried to unload our horses.
I wasn't even finished saddling up Bob and they were calling my name to take my first run. I was stressed from the drive and poor Bob was riding right along on my emotions. Minutes later without any of our preliminary ground work, Bob and I were moving our first cows.
Bob was so tense I felt like I was sitting on a board. I had this sinking feeling we were a recipe for disaster. When Bob spooked, sprinting sideways all the way across the pen, I almost fell off but at the last minute regained my balance. Quite a crowd had gathered to watch the proceedings. I recall thinking as we flew along sideways that I'd be darned if I was going to fall off in front of them.
The old me would have called it a day and gotten off. The new me carried on - a testament to how much my confidence has grown this year. Eventually as I kept riding things got better.
My Cowgirl Pal and I were both chilled by the time we finished. We were off our horses after shaking our legs out to get the circulation back, loaded up and on our way home minutes later. With the sun now up and the roads clear, it was an uneventful drive back home.
But I knew as I pulled into our barnyard that I was finished hauling for the year. As I write this it's sleeting outside. Snow is predicted tonight. It's time to shut it down for the winter. I'm sad to see it end but I'm left with great memories of the times I've had and wonderful people I met. You can bet Bob and I will be back on the road next spring.
And I cant wait ! Wonderful post and photos. You have done so well through out the season , you and Bob are a perfect team . It is windy and cold here as well but no major snow falls yet but its on its way I can feel it. Have a wonderful day !
ReplyDeleteAww this post brought happy tears to my eyes. I'm so happy you found Bob. He's the perfect horse for you and you both have come so far together. :D I'm glad you had a great last sorting for the year and that you had such a fantastic summer. I hope you have a safe winter and I can't wait to hear about your adventures again in the spring. :D
ReplyDeletebrrrrr!!
ReplyDeleteAt least you have those warm hazy summer memories to nurse through the cold winter. It always makes spring better knowing that soon I can buckle up my bridles without numb, fumbling fingers. Because it gets too wet to ride, I tend to use the winter time to clean tack, organize the tack room, and practice my horse cooking (i.e., molasses cookies and hot bran mashes!)
Great post- and way to go for staying on with a near-fall! Last time I had that feeling we were riding through 3 feet of water; I definitely defied gravity when I was nearly off, looked down and said no way in heck would I end up in the cold water! :)
Corinna